Rev. John McFayden retires as Chief of Church Engagement for the Board of Pensions

“The Board has been the right place for me to finish my career,” said Rev. McFayden, who pastored five congregations before joining the agency. “Being part of the Board’s mission of providing benefits and assistance is another way of ministering, of caring for people.”

“John has been a bridge builder, strengthening connections within the denomination, among the General Assembly, the presbyteries, and the congregations,” said the Reverend Dr. Frank Clark Spencer, Board President. “Most recently, he built connections with communities of color in the Church. This has helped the Board build relationships and understand needs so we can better serve all PC(USA) constituencies.”

Graduating from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill with a bachelor’s in American religious history, Rev. McFayden expected an academic career. But while pursuing a Master of Divinity at Princeton Theological Seminary, where he also earned a Doctor of Ministry, the field work changed his mind.

“I was drawn to the breadth and depth of congregational ministry. I loved the broad relationships, the generations of families,” Rev. McFayden said. “You have an ongoing, deep relationship with a congregation.”

At age 25, Rev. McFayden answered his first call as a pastor, serving two rural congregations in the mountains outside Charlottesville, Virginia: Cove Presbyterian Church and Rockfish Presbyterian Church. Three years later, he went on to serve nearly a decade at Camp Springs United Presbyterian Church, Maryland, followed by four years at First United Presbyterian Church of Dale City, Virginia.

In 1998, Rev. McFayden was called to the 2,000-member First Presbyterian Church of Arlington Heights, Illinois. At his installation service, the Reverend John N. Buchanan of Fourth Presbyterian Church of Chicago described him as “a man of great integrity, lively intellect, and an open and welcoming spirit.” Pastor McFayden served 12 ½ years before joining the Board of Pensions.

During his years of pastoral ministry, Rev. McFayden also served the wider denomination. He was Moderator of the Presbytery of Chicago; a member of the General Assembly Council and Chair of its Congregational Ministries Division; Chair of the General Assembly’s Special Offerings Task Force; a member of the Office of General Assembly review committee; and Chair of the General Assembly’s Six Agency Review Committee.

As Rev. McFayden packed up his office at the Board, he sorted through letters from people he had pastored. He paused over one, from a young woman updating him on the work she was doing, the birth of a child, a coming wedding, and plans for mission work. “I accompanied her mother to Washington, D.C., to pull her off the streets. She was 14 and working as a prostitute,” he said. “These experiences are what really matter, being there with people when there is a need.”

Rev. McFayden recalled visiting the home of a woman whose husband had just killed himself in the house and sitting with another at the hospital during her husband’s surgery. The husband later wrote to the pastor, thanking him “for being there when, regardless of outside appearances, we were in great need of support.”

Others wrote to praise his sermons. One congregant said he had “an ability to preach in a way that is uniquely thoughtful, memorable, and meaningful.” Another letter writer said, “You have made me a better person.” And a young congregant wrote that “some of your Sunday morning sermons were really funny.” Her favorite was about “the hokeypokey when you called it the hanky-panky. … Oh boy you made everyone laugh.”

Rev. McFayden credits the late Reverend Dr. Blair Monie with breaking his stuffy stereotypes of Presbyterian ministers. When Rev. Monie was pastor at Preston Hollow Presbyterian Church in Dallas, he started a motorcycle gang — a relief to a young minister who did not want to give up his bike.

Education and church were the two points of emphasis in the McFayden family, who attended First Presbyterian Church in Raleigh, North Carolina. Rev. McFayden’s brother, the Reverend Dr. Kenneth J. McFayden, serves as Academic Dean of Union Presbyterian Seminary’s Richmond, Virginia, campus and professor of ministry and leadership development.

In retirement, Rev. McFayden, an avid sailor, will spend more time on open water than open road. Upon retiring, he and his wife, Hamida Shirazy, took their boat to the Bahamas. Dr. Shirazy is a dentist originally from Mombasa, Kenya. The two plan to head there soon to visit her family and explore opportunities to dedicate their gifts to service in Kenya.

“I have a theology of call that is not limited to ministry,” Rev. McFayden said. As Rev. Buchanan said 25 years ago when he recommended Rev. McFayden to the pastor nominating committee at First Presbyterian Church of Arlington Heights, “John’s creativity and energy need a new and exciting challenge.”